How to finalize an adoption in BC?

Most adoptive parents look forward to getting that final document, the court order for their adoption. Finalizing an adoption in BC involves an application to the Supreme Court after meeting all the requirements of our Adoption Act. The adoptive parent or parents must be residents of BC (the definition of “resident” is set out in the adoption legislation); the child to be adopted may be born in BC, another province in Canada, or in another country.

The major requirements for an adoption application are as follows:

  • If the adoptive parents are not related to the child to be adopted by blood or marriage, the adoption must be facilitated by one of the adoption agencies in BC;
  • The necessary court documents must be prepared and filed. These include a Petition, supporting Affidavits (sworn written evidence), a report to the court from a BC adoption agency, the child’s registration of live birth document (or equivalent) and a form for BC’s department of Vital Statistics;
  • The child to be adopted must have been in the care of his or her adoptive parent(s) for at least six months before the adoption application is made; and
  • If possible, the consents of the birth parents, usually in the form of an Affidavit, must be obtained and filed with the application.

Some countries, such as China and Russia, require that adoptions be finalized in that country through a court or government office before the adoptive parents can leave with their child to return to Canada. Most provinces in Canada, many states in the United States, and countries such as Japan and the Philippines, allow adoptive parents to take their child home and then finalize the adoption in BC.

An adoption should be accompanied by a consideration of your existing will, or the making of a will if you don’t have one. We suggest adoptive parents also make Powers of Attorney to appoint one or more people to manage their finances if the parent becomes incapable; you will want to appoint someone who will take good care of you and your children.

Disclaimer: The above information is given as information only and is not given as legal advice. Do not rely on this information as advice for your specific circumstances. Talk to a lawyer who specializes in family law about the specific facts of your circumstances to get advice on how the law applies to you.

Where can you find reliable adoption information?

To make good decisions about adoption choices, you need reliable information, specific to the province (or state) and country in which you live. The laws regarding adoption in the province of British Columbia are different from the laws regarding adoption in Alberta or Washington State.

So, where you can you find reliable adoption information? Here are some tips:

  • Start with websites of adoption agencies, provincial and federal governments, and lawyers who specialize in adoption finalization.
  • Look for adoption agencies that are accredited under the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption. Canada is a full signatory to the Hague Convention so all adoption agencies in Canada are Hague accredited.
  • Search for programs in the countries or regions from which you may want to adopt a child.
  • Note partnerships between agencies. Sometimes there are country program partnerships between adoption agencies in different provinces or countries. If you are a resident of BC, you can adopt children from another province or from the USA. However, in both cases, you must work with an adoption agency in BC.
  • Ignore websites or agencies that offer to complete adoption applications for a flat fee in many different provinces or states. It is very difficult for a lawyer or agency to be competent in many jurisdictions.
  • Be careful about legal advice in online adoption forums or blogs, as the law in your province or country may be different, and laws and policies can change quickly.

I recommend the following websites (listed in alphabetical order):

Adoption Agencies and associations in BC and other provinces:

British Columbia:

Rest of Canada:

Adoption Agencies in the USA:

Medical information about international adoption:

More than one million children available for adoption to residents of BC

As resident of BC, you can adoption children from many provinces, states and countries. My rough estimate is that at least one million children could be matched with a resident of BC. As of May 2016, children can be adopted through our BC adoption agencies from:

  • BC and the other provinces and territories in Canada;
  • USA: The population of the USA is approximately 325 million people. There are several hundred adoption agencies in the USA. There are many newborns and older children in need of permanent families;
  • Africa: Contact an adoption agency for its Africa country programs;
  • Asia: China, India, Japan, Korea, Philippines, Taiwan, Vietnam;
  • Caribbean: Haiti;
  • Central/South America: Colombia, Guyana, Nicaragua;
  • Eastern Europe: Bulgaria, Kazakhstan, Romania;
  • Pacific Islands: Samoa.

© 2019 Karen Henry, LLB. karenhenrylaw@shaw.ca
Lawyer, West Coast Family Law Centre
1179 Fort Street, Victoria, BC, Canada, V8V 3L1

Changing a birth date for an adopted child; how to obtain a court order (declaration from a judge)

Changing a birth date for an adopted child. How to obtain a court order (declaration from a judge).

Do you need to change your child’s birth date? It may seem odd to give a child a new birthday, but this is the best course for some children adopted internationally. In the thirteen years I have practised adoption law, I have been asked by parents of children from Ethiopia, Nepal, Vietnam and the Democratic Republic of Congo how they can legally correct a child’s birth date. As an adoptive parent myself, I can sympathize with these parents. The inaccurate birth dates mean extra paperwork and advocacy for them, and may mean missed or delayed opportunities for their children.

Why are children’s birth dates inaccurate? There are many reasons. If a child has been abandoned, or found in the midst of a conflict zone, he or she may have been given an estimated birth date by orphanage staff or adoption officials. Sometimes more than one birth date may appear on a child’s official documents. Children are sometimes given birth dates to make them seem younger in the belief this will increase their likelihood of being adopted. In some countries, birth registration is not required, or birth records are missing or inadequate. Therefore, the birth records that exist may be inaccurate.

Age does matter. For many reasons, it is important that your legal birth date be similar to your chronological birth date. If a child is younger on paper than his or her chronological age, he or she may have to wait one or more years to start school or college. The discrepancy can be problematic for any activity organized by chronological age, including individual or team sports, obtaining a drivers’ licence, or getting a job. For medical matters, age is often a factor in dosages, vaccines and other treatments.

So, how can a parent correct a birth date? For adoptive parents in Canada, there are two ways to change a child’s birth date. This article will discuss one process available to residents of British Columbia, but the other Canadian provinces have a similar process. A person may apply to the Supreme Court of British Columbia for a declaration for a new birth date for a child. There is another process, in the context of making a citizenship application for a child, set out in the Immigration Canada policy manuals. I will not discuss that process in this article.

When making a declaration of a new birth date for an adopted child, the Supreme Court of British Columbia exercises its parens patriae jurisdiction. This is the very broad jurisdiction over matters affecting citizens that our superior courts have inherited from the divine right of kings. The court, however, needs reliable evidence before exercising this jurisdiction. Evidence is generally provided in sworn written documents called Affidavits. Under our current BC court rules, a request to our Supreme Court to change a child’s birth date would be set out in a Petition, with Affidavits as supporting evidence.

I recommend provided the following evidence by Affidavit:

1. A dentist’s opinion. A dentist, considering the root formation of a child’s teeth visible in an x-ray, and the presence and eruption of teeth above the gum line, may be able to provide a range of actual birth dates for the child, hopefully narrowed to a three or six month period. For teenagers, an orthodontist’s opinion may be necessary.

2. A pediatrician’s opinion. An overall assessment of the child’s development, including her gross and fine motor skills, cognitive and emotional development, and a comparison to standard growth charts is very helpful for the court. If the child is in school, the pediatrician can review the child’s report cards, and these documents may be provided to the court as well.

3. Known information about the child’s birth. A summary of the information provided to the parents by the orphanage staff, adoption facilitators, and/or government officials about the child’s birth and the circumstances leading to the child’s availability for adoption should be set out in an Affidavit.

4. A radiologist’s opinion. This is optional, but should be considered. A radiologist, after considering x-rays of the child’s hand or wrist, may be able to provide a narrow range of actual birth dates. However, the age range established by x-rays may be much broader than that established by a dentist, especially if malnutrition delayed the child’s physical growth.

In 2013, I appeared in court regarding a Petition filed on behalf of one of my clients. We had the following evidence before the court: a dentist had determined the child was born in a three month period, a pediatrician had opined the child was born in a six month period and a radiologist gave an eighteen month period for the child’s actual birth date. The narrow three month range provided by the dentist was right in the middle of the six month period provided by the pediatrician. Both of these periods were in the middle of the range provided by the radiologist. So, in the end, we asked the court to declare the child’s birth date to be a date right in the middle of the time period provided by the dentist. And so, the child had a new birthday!

© 2019 Karen Henry, LLB. karenhenrylaw@shaw.ca
Lawyer, West Coast Family Law Centre
1179 Fort Street, Victoria, BC, Canada, V8V 3L1

Disclaimer: The above information is given as information only and is not given as legal advice. Do not rely on this information as advice for your specific circumstances. Talk to a lawyer who specializes in adoption law about the specific facts of your circumstances to get personal legal advice.

Can I adopt my step-daughter? She’s an adult now.

You may want to adopt your step-child so she or he can be a beneficiary of your estate or to recognize the close parent/child relationship that you have. The main requirement is that while your step-child was under the age of 19, that he or she lived with you as a member of your family and was maintained by you until he or she became self-supporting or an adult. This requirement is set out in section 44 of the Adoption Act. Of course, your step-child must consent to the adoption, and do so in writing. The BC Supreme Court requires that the birth parents of the step-child be notified of the adoption, so that they can object or consent to the adoption.

If you are married to your step-child’s birth parent – and thus through that marriage became a step-parent, you will likely want to adopt under section 29(2) of the Adoption Act so that your spouse’s parental rights and responsibilities are preserved and you become a parent jointly with your spouse. If you became a step-parent through a common-law relationship, or your marriage or common-law relationship has now ended, you can still adopt your adult step-child if he or she consents.

Adoption of an adult requires a consideration of your existing Will, or the making a new Will. The effect of an adoption order would be to make you a “parent” and your step-child your “child” for legal purposes – including Wills, other estate matters, Powers of Attorney, and health care decision making. The adopting step-parent, the birth parents and the adult child to be adopted must get legal advice on the meaning and effect of an adoption order, including the effects on inheritance, before signing consents to an adoption.

Please be advised: The adoption of adults is not a means to dodge Canadian immigration policies. Trying to adopt an adult on false pretences is a breach of Canadian law and may hinder an immigration application.

Disclaimer: The above information is given as information only and is not given as legal advice. Do not rely on this information as advice for your specific circumstances. Talk to a lawyer who specializes in family law about the specific facts of your circumstances to get advice on how the law applies to you.